In the US, as many a pundit and columnist will tell you – this “holiday” has changed over the years from remembrance of those who lost their lives in military service to yet another 3-4 day weekend complete with sales.
I can shop or not shop at Christmas sales – even tho it has nothing to do with me. But as a military veteran – I just can’t fathom remembering those who have died by going shopping. Instead I think of those who died in long ago wars, those in more recent service and respect most those eulogies delivered by those who also have worn the uniform.
It is also worth remembering that not everyone buried in one of the National Cemeteries died in combat. Veterans also have the right to be buried there. The closest one to here is at the Presidio in San Francisco, next nearest is Sacramento. If I was years younger, I might go assist on one of the clean-up crews. But now? I am not looking to get planted there any time soon, so I think I will pass this year…..