Thinking back

I can remember meeting Kid Rock in Kuwait when he & his groupies came as part of a USO show. The only reason I met him was that he stopped by the clinic and one of my PA’s gave me a panicked call. Just said that he had one of the USO performers who was there, demanding care and medications. Ok … but it wasn’t. This particular person claimed, without any prescriptions or medical notes to back him up that he needed certain meds prior to his performance. – and no, he didn’t have them with him. Something or other about forgetting them in his luggage or lost or …. Needless to say, I wasn’t all that sympathetic. I don’t consider uppers, downers, and oxycontin as medications for performance. Perhaps if I had been asked for 1 or 2 tabs I might have bent. But no one needs 30-50…. nor do they need advice on how to get alcohol around the local countries prohibitions.

And now I see this particular obnoxious person performing for the former president. And I am wondering if he is still using a lot of drugs to get through his performances, daily life, and how this is affecting him and those he is cheering on.

In contrast, Robin Williams came through with the USO as well that year. He walked around in the crowd, talked to people, and was direct, funny, and answered audience questions. That last can be pretty hard with a crows of thousands packed, all standing, into a small space. I went and looked at his Wiki article (look it up if you are interested). There are a couple of pictures of him at USO functions, but no mention of how much time and effort he put into entertaining and supporting troops.

Contrasts there.

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fiber person - knitter, spinner, weaver who spent 33 years being a military officer to fund the above. And home. And family. Sewing and quilting projects are also in the stash. After living again in Heidelberg after retiring (finally) from the U.S. Army May 2011, we moved to the US ~ Dec 2015. Something about being over 65 and access to health care. It also might have had to do with finding a buyer for our house. Allegedly this will provide me a home base in the same country as our four adult children, all of whom I adore, so that I can drive them totally insane. Considerations of time to knit down the stash…(right, and if you believe that…) and spin and .... There is now actually enough time to do a bit of consulting, editing. Even more amazing - we have only one household again. As long as everyone understands that I still, 40 years into our marriage, don't do kitchens or bathrooms. For that matter, not being a golden retriever, I don't do slippers or newspapers either. I don’t miss either the military or full-time clinical practice. Limiting my public health/travel med/consulting and lecturing to “when I feel like it” has let me happily spend my pension cruising, stash enhancing (oops), arguing with the DH about where we are going to travel next and book buying. Life is good!
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3 Responses to Thinking back

  1. ron says:

    Many of the newly rich and famous deserve more sympathy than scorn. They’re hopelessly out of their depth and miss the freedom of having nothing to lose. They’re surrounded by thousands who want a piece of them, but no one they can trust. They often have an existential fear of being found out, suffer from debilitating performance anxiety, and all too often find alcohol and drugs are an easy, but perilous way to cope.

    But as you found out, many of them are just s..t heads.

  2. Holly says:

    I am not sure how newly rich & famous he was at 30 (KidRock) but he certainly felt he was entitled. Not being a fan of drug seeking behavior, nor of abusive speech at either my staff or myself, saying NO was easy. Plus I wasn’t about to have him repeat this somewhere else with the worse “Camp Doha helped me…” At more than 20 years older – Robin Williams was kind to everyone. It was a really stark contrast.

  3. ron says:

    I once had a long talk with someone who worked the late shift in the kitchen of a top Munich hotel. He said that many of their high profile guests were friendly, generous and easy to please.
    But I’m sure he also encountered his share of KidRocks.

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